My pronouns are She/Her/Hers, and I'm a neurodivergent, queer, and kinky cis woman, a mom of two, and a wife to a pretty epic husband. I am grateful to live, work, and play on the traditional, ancestral, unceded territory of the Syilx/Okanagan People.
I am a bad bitch who loves everything sensual and luxurious, deep intimacy, and messy sex with my lover. I am deeply sensitive and can go from 0-100 in irritation level real quick. I live for shock value when I share jokes, and speaking of sharing, I definitely need to dial it down on oversharing, but I guess here we are on the podcast talking about heart-opening anal sex. I love to learn and fill my brain with knowledge, and I'm even more enthusiastic about inviting people deeper into the experience.
I consider myself an initiator. If you're into Human Design profiles, I'm a Manifestor. So it makes sense that I'm here to spark that fire under your ass. I don't believe we have to spend years and years together so you can ignite the change you so deeply want to feel in motherhood, sex, and self.
I know it's an accumulation of small changes every day that over time creates incredible, consistent change and transformation.
As a mom of a teen and a toddler, I can share with you that with the tools I know now, I'm feeling much more ease, space, and connection to my identity and sexuality than I did during the first round with my oldest. I know what it feels like to ask yourself, "Who am I? What do I even like, and what is my identity outside of mothering?!" Realizing that after years of pouring my cup empty day in and day out, I had nothing to give back to myself and channeled all that resentment onto my kids or partner.
I'm here as a living, breathing embodiment of this work, and so are many other women who have taken part in this course and worked with me. It is possible to have your spark, your thriving connection to your sexuality, and a liberated, empowered identity outside of motherhood. The result? A happier self, intimacy, and children. You show up confidently, joyfully, and most of all, have space to magnetize whatever desires you want for the life you create!
You get to have as many cakes as you want and eat them too; you don't have to choose one or the other. Above all, I want you to thrive. I want it so deeply. The power that you can connect with when your heart is full of self-love and self-compassion, alive and joyous sexuality, and ease in the nervous system is literally better than any drug known to man.
That's the one I want you to take.
Moms being connected to their dreams, desires, pleasure and power will radically shift society and our children's lives in the best way possible. Will you be at the forefront? 💖